Terrorists in America: The Man They Wanted Me To Be (Toxic Masculinity and a Crisis of Our Own Making), by Jared Yates Sexton
Though [the murder of Heather Heyer] and increasing disapproval of the alt-right hurt their membership. there are still legions of dedicated acolytes, most of them trolls who spend their time on shadowy forums like 4chan and on obscure Reddit forums having conversations about murdering liberals, skinning journalists, starting a new civil war, orchestrating mass genocide, destroying the Constitution and replacing it with a fascist regime, and instituting a new patriarchal order where men are allowed to rape and murder women. It's bewildering to think of how things have changed since the Greatest Generation gave their lives to fight fascism, but fear of the fall of the patriarchy has led to a rise in this ideology.
Part autobiography, part warning, part call to action, Sexton's sequel to the book I read last month, The People Are Going to Rise Like the Waters Upon Your Shore , interweaves the author's own experiences growing up in rural Indiana with his decorated WWII veteran grandfather, his abusive father and a series of abusive stepfathers, and the mother who tried to protect him. It is a book identifying and exploring toxic masculinity: the wife-beaters, the mass shooters, the incels, the Trump voters, the Nazi marchers and militias. They have already invaded our world; now we get the chance to enter theirs, to weep with pity and contempt, and to take steps to protect ourselves.
In Sexton's home town, the choices were: rich kid, athlete-bully, country boy and rebel, all of them toxic to boys and hostile to girls. Sexton's dad and stepdads punished him for reading and for wanting to write; they vowed to make a man of him and get him to be tough, drunk and violent instead, and for a time, they succeeded. Sexton almost dies in a car crash, almost ruins his future in journalism school getting arrested, and more than once puts the barrel of a gun in his mouth and fingers the trigger (spoiler: he has lived to write the book).
He watches his father change from ordinary asshole to dangerously unhinged Fox-viewing conspiracy monger, to fatal illness stemming from drinking, stress, and believing that only pussies go to the doctor, to, at the end, showing his long-repressed soft side, regretting his life choices and admitting to his son Jared that the whole patriarchy thing was bullshit.
And among that---the things that made the news during that period. The shootings and other murders by white men who were told that the American Dream belonged to them, and who lashed out murderously when they didn't get rich or laid fast enough to suit them. the ones who openly see the rise of the Republicans as an affirmation of their freedom to assert dominance over POC, over women, over nerds and liberals and anyone who doesn't conform to their rigid gender and sexuality roles.
They are dangerous. That is still news to some.
And yes, all men, including me, and if you're a man and honest with yourself, you too. We all have the poison in us to some degree, but we can reduce it, see it for what it is, and choose differently, one day at a time. we can work to make a society in which we don't have to be toxic, and where we can get help in realizing our full potential as whole human beings. the end of the book, where Sexton describes what men need to do and how to do it, is the best, most worthwhile part of the book. Very highest recommendations.
Irish Bull: Mr. Dooley at his Very Best, by Finley Peter Dunne
In England a man is presoomed to be innocent till he's proved guilty, an' they take it f'r granted he's guilty. In this counthry a man is presoomed to be guilty ontil he's proved guilty an' after that he's presoomed to be innocent.....Th' prisoner is hauled in in chains an' th' judge, afther exprissin' his disloike iv his face with a look iv scorn, says "Murtherer, ye are entitled to a fair thrile. Ar-re ye guilty or not guilty? Not guilty ye say? I thought ye wud. That's what th' likes iv ye always say. Well, I'll have this disagreeable business over with in a hurry. I'll allow th' prosecution three hours to show ye up an' th' definse can have th' rest iv th' morning. Wake me up whin th' evidence is all in." And about Noon his honor is woke be a note from th' jury askin' how long they ar-re goin' to be kept fr'm their dinner. He hauls th' black cap out iv th' bandbox an' puttin' it on over his wig he says, "Pris'ner at th' bar, it is now me lawful jooty to lave ye'er fate to a British jury. I will not attempt to infloonce them in anny way, i will not take th' time to brush away th' foolish ividence put in ye'er definse. Ye'er lawyers have done as well as they cud with nawthin' to go on. If anny of th' jury believe ye innocent let thim retire to their room and didcuss th' matther over a meal iv bread an' wather while th' chops burn on th' kitchen stove an' their clerks ar-re distributin' groceries free to th' neighborhood."
Another amazing collection of Mr. Dooley columns, for all I know the earliest set of American syndicated columns that they bothered to collect and publish in book form, and, it seems to me, deserving of a much more prominent place in the American canon than it has. possibly because the thick Irish brogue imitated in the writing is such a challenge to read.
Like all sets of short pieces, it has a wide range of value. Some columns, like the criminal trial quoted above, are among the finest satire I've ever seen; some are too dull to justify piecing through the dialect, and some are downright racist (content note for frequent use of n-words and other offensive epithets). Taken as a whole, it sparkles.
Siding With Thanos: Beyond the Pleasure Principle, by Sigmund Freud
The facts that led us to believe in the dominion of the pleasure-principle in psychic life also find their expression in the assumption that it is an endeavor of the mental apparatus to keep the quantity of excitement in it as low as possible, or at least constant. It is the same thing, only brought into a different form, for if the work of the psychic apparatus is to keep the quantity of excitement low, then everything which it is capable of increasing must be felt to be dysfunctional, that is, unpleasant. The pleasure principle derives from the principle of constancy; in fact, the principle of constancy was deduced from the facts which forced us to accept the pleasure principle. At a more detailed discussion, we will also find Fechner 's principle subordinated to the tendency to stability , to which he has related the pleasure-unpleasure sensations.
Another tract by Freud emphasizing the idea that people's tendency to fuck up their lives (the primary basic argument against the assertion that humans seek pleasure and seek to avoid pain) are driven by a subconscious desire for drama, or chaos, or sensation of even pain as an alternative to dull ennui, or even death--in other words, that there is a psychological "payoff" in doing things that cause one to suffer. I guess Dostoevsky, for one, agrees.
The whole discussion of death-wishes ("thanatos") and self-sabotage that is actually willed by some part of our fucked up minds made me painfully aware of my own psychological imperfections, the stuff I drink to get away from. It made me wonder how the human race ever made it to the advanced stages, and to what extent people's superegos wanted Trump as punishment for their own sins.
Thinking it Through: Science and Hypothesis, by Henri Poincare
When a physicist finds a contradiction between two theories which are equally dear to him, he sometimes says: “Let us not be troubled, but let us hold fast to the two ends of the chain, lest we lose the intermediate links.” This argument of the embarrassed theologian would be ridiculous if we were to attribute to physical theories the interpretation given them by the man of the world. In case of contradiction one of them at least should be considered false. But this is no longer the case if we only seek in them what should be sought. It is quite possible that they both express true relations, and that the contradictions only exist in the images we have formed to ourselves of reality.
This is the first entry in the Great Books "20th Century Science" volume. In the edition I read, the most fascinating part is the introduction describing who Poincare was: allegedly the VERY LAST person to learn "all that there is to know" before the body of human knowledge became too great for one person to grok it all. He went from maths to physics to biology to philosophy like a food connoisseur at a five star all-you-can-eat buffet.
And his representative work is a great piece in generalism, even though it seems to be the scientific equivalent of Zeno's silly theorems (Science is not really knowable; it's just that every experiment, the results of which, are consistent with you theory, brings you some proportion of the remaining way towards truth)...which may actually be the case; nevertheless, we persist.
Making Black Lives Matter: Chokehold, by Paul Butler
The Chokehold means that what happens in places like Ferguson and Baltimore, where the police routinely harrass and discriminate against African Americans--is not a flaw in the criminal justice system. ferguson and Baltimore are examples of how the system is SUPPOSED to work. The problem is not bad apple cops. The problem is police work itself. American cops are the enforcers of a criminal justice regime that targets black men and sets them up to fail.
The Chokehold is how the police get away with shooting unarmed black people. Cops are rarely prosecuted because they are, literally, doing their jobs. This is why efforts to fix "problems" like excessive force and racial profiling are doomed to fail. If it's not broke, you can't fix it. Police violence and selective enforcement are not so much flaws in the criminal justice system as they are integral features of it. The Chokehold is why, literally speaking, black lives don't matter as much as white lives.
Butler is a former prosecutor in an environment where the State's priority was to seek rehabilitative sentences when the defendant was white, and to make an example of him if he was black. And one of the inconvenient truths he has to tell us is that black men are better off when stopped by a white officer than a black one. Because, according to Butler, black cops (and prosecutors) are under pressure to prove which side they are on, and are often more harsh on people who look like them than white cops are. And, knowing how too many white cops act with immediate excessive force, even deadly force, that's quite an indictment.
Butler's larger statement here is that the criminal "justice" system is working exactly as intended, and no reform short of abolishing prisons is going to meaningfully change anything. The United States' mission is to make black men into a threat, and to then stop the "threat" with selective law enforcement, profile stops, unnecessary force, and harsh sentences. When a black man is shot by a cop, that is what the cop has been paid to do.
And yes, the book is specific to black men, and aware. In the prologue and epilogue, Butler identifies and acknowledges ways in which other marginalized groups get targeted in different types of oppression that should be addressed in different books. The Chokehold, however, is specific.
E Pluribus Unum: The Principle of Individuality and Value, by Bernard Bosanquet
It is admitted that external action involves psycho-physical systems or "dispositions" which being started by their normal stimulus run down like clockwork to a habitual end. And it is common ground that so far as mental operations of this kind are concerned there is no final impossibility in their being translated into physiological terms. But it is urged that, so to speak, on top of these, a mind thus organised and habituated, the nature of purpose forces us to superadd a power of a wholly different order, by which new activities are freely generated in view of new experiences, the process remaining for certain phases independent of the physical series, and resuming relations with it at some further point.
Bosanquet sort of rang an alarm clock that caused me to suddenly grok a bit that has been in many earlier philosophical tracts that I had ignored out of boredom with dissertations about "the one and the many" that had seemed like meaningless navel gazing to me. Rephrase it in terms of groups of people and the individual's role in a community, and it suddenly becomes interesting to anyone who has wanted to make societies and government by common consent work in an environment where quirky individualists, anarchists, libertarians, and assholes don't want to be told what to do.
Bosanquet's thesis is that, yes, there is a big ineffable plan that we're supposed to be fulfilling, but that the plan (which one would think he'd say we had a duty to search out and fulfill) is less important than individuality. On the other hand, the inherent value of a person (to others, or to the community) is dependent on that person's cooperation with the goal of the universe (which is a fancy way of saying you're worth more to society if you don't rock the boat). It may be that the "Absolute" or "God" is the sum of all conscious minds working together to become one.
I'm not sure I'm sold on it, but it fascinated me, which is more than i can say for a lot of philosophy.
Mathematical Pragmatism: Chance, Love and Logic, by Charles Sanders Pierce
Just as if a man, being seized with the conviction that paper was a good material to make things of, were to go to work to build a papier mache house, with roof of roofing paper, foundations of pasteboard, windows of parafinned paper, chimneys, bath thubs, locks, etc., all of different forms of paper, his experiment would probably afford valuable lessons to builders, while it would certainly make a detestable house, so those one-idea'd philosophies are exceedingly interesting and instructive, and yet are quite unsound.
And this one I'm not sure I got. Pierce was a contemporary, even a mentor maybe, to William James, who credits him with introducing him to "pragmatism"; yet his works were published much later. his other work that I have on my list is his "collected papers", which were arranged and printed some time after his death.
Whereas James speaks of pragmatism in terms of accepting a premise if doing so will bring positive results and it is at least as likely to be true as any competing theory---and emphasizes results--Pierce emphasizes likelihood of truth, and has several chapters about chance and probability, with complicated equations for determining the likelihood of, you know, dice throws, or turning up a red card. If there is a way that that degree of mathematical calculation can be applied to such questions as which Gods, if any, exist, or which is the best form of government, I missed it
As for the "love" part of the title, that doesn't get addressed until the end of the book, where it contrasts heartless Darwinism and cold economic theory of human interactions with "creative evolution" and the use of heart and mind in planning a good society.
Parallel Lives: The Old Wives' Tale, by Arnold Bennet
With the profound, instinctive cruelty of youth, Constance and Sophia had assembled in their favourite haunt, the show-room, expressly to deride Maggie in her new clothes. They obscurely thought that a woman so ugly and soiled as Maggie was had no right to possess new clothes. Even her desire to take the air of a Thursday afternoon seemed to them unnatural and somewhat reprehensible. Why should she want to stir out of her kitchen? As for her tender yearnings, they positively grudged these to Maggie. That Maggie should give rein to chaste passion was more than grotesque; it was offensive and wicked. But let it not for an instant be doubted that they were nice, kind-hearted, well-behaved, and delightful girls! Because they were. They were not angels.
I'm amazed that this great tale existed without me ever knowing of it until this year. It belongs right up there with the classics of Austen, the Brontes, and Balzac, and yet few people have heard of it, or, at least they do not discuss it around me or write about it in pieces that I read. But then, if I'd heard of all of the great classics, I'd have read them long ago. With gaps in one's education, one gets to keep making discoveries well into middle age, and that's worth something.
The Old Wives' Tale is the story of two sisters: the shy, conservative Constance, who lives up to the expectations of elders; and the bold, liberal Sophia, whose field of fucks to give lies fallow. And of their lives from childhood in the 1850s or so until old age and death in the early 20th Century; their parents, husbands and children, and the rural town in England that does not want to change, but has change thrust upon it nonetheless.
In the four major sections of the book, first the freshness, exuberance and thoughtlessness of young girlhood gives way to forced maturity and hardship; then there is a separation and we see Constance's path and then Sophia's; and then they are reunited in their old age, every line on their faces telling a story. It is both universal and peculiar to their identities and times. I was enthralled and think you may be too. Very highest recommendations.